Paul writes in Ephesians 4,
And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, to equip the saints, for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ, so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes.
Parents, do you remember a time when you suddenly realized, in some public place, that you had lost track of your child? Remember you head snapping up and whirling back and forth as you scanned the area and called a name?
If you are or have ever been the parent of young children, you know the feelings you get when, in some strange place, you suddenly loose track of one of them and don’t know where he is or how long he has been gone.
One significant reason why you panic is you know that your children look at adults as authority figures and not all are worthy of respect. You have to watch over your children to protect them from being misled and deceived by those who would do them harm.
Likewise, Paul associates Christian immaturity with the danger of being misled by false teachers. Children are prone to be “tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes.”
Paul wants to see his congregations mature to the point where he doesn’t have to worry about them as much–where he can be more confident that they are firmly rooted and grounded and can withstand the winds and the waves. He wants them not only to hear the word preached by evangelists, pastors, and teachers so that they will reach maturity—“until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ.”
What’s tricky about this passage is the application: It is very easy to run further into the problem when one tries to solve it. How could a person pursuing maturity in recognizing sound doctrine end up being tossed about?
I appeal to you, brothers, to watch out for those who cause divisions and create obstacles contrary to the doctrine that you have been taught; avoid them. For such persons do not serve our Lord Christ, but their own appetites, and by smooth talk and flattery they deceive the hearts of the naive. For your obedience is known to all, so that I rejoice over you, but I want you to be wise as to what is good and innocent as to what is evil (Romans 16.17-19).
Now we know that the law is good, if one uses it lawfully, understanding this, that the law is not laid down for the just but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who strike their fathers and mothers, for murderers, the sexually immoral, men who practice homosexuality, enslavers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine, in accordance with the glorious gospel of the blessed God with which I have been entrusted (1 Tim 1.8-11).
Let all who are under a yoke as slaves regard their own masters as worthy of all honor, so that the name of God and the teaching may not be reviled. Those who have believing masters must not be disrespectful on the ground that they are brothers; rather they must serve all the better since those who benefit by their good service are believers and beloved. Teach and urge these things. If anyone teaches a different doctrine and does not agree with the sound words of our Lord Jesus Christ and the teaching that accords with godliness, he is puffed up with conceit and understands nothing. He has an unhealthy craving for controversy and for quarrels about words, which produce envy, dissension, slander, evil suspicions, and constant friction among people who are depraved in mind and deprived of the truth, imagining that godliness is a means of gain (1 Tim 6.1-5).
The stress here on doctrines is not on a written formula. There are times those must be dealt with, but that is not Paul’s primary interest in a great many of his letters. Rather, his point is behavior. Being tossed about means causing divisions and creating obstacles. It means ceasing to be obedient. According to Paul’s letter to Timothy, it even includes all manner of lawlessness. Not only are parent-abusers, murderers, philanderers and homosexuals, etc, against the law, they are also contrary to sound doctrine and to the Gospel. According to Paul’s same letter it also means slave submitting to their masters rather than rebelling and introducing a world of quarrels about mere words and controversies.
So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels. And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, and they may escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will (1 Tim 2.22-26).
Again, notice the emphasis on behavior. Whatever Timothy is dealing with, he must make sure that he deals with it in a way that does not simply multiply controversies and quarrels. He has to remain gentle.
(By the way, some English translations refer to “youthful lusts” rather than “youthful passions.” That’s an accurate word to use but you have to remember that in context Paul isn’t talking about what we usually associate with lust. The unlawful desire here is not for sexual adventure but for fame in controversy.)
And this is my point. Typically, a young man who has powerful youthful passions tries to reach maturity by studying theological minutiae. What he studies may involve nothing but the truth and may be needed in certain circumstances, but 99 times out of 100, he finds those circumstances in his dorm room gab session or on an internet bulletin board, or in the comment system of the blog he lusts to hate. He is not following Paul’s prescription for maturity but becoming exactly what Paul is warning about in this passage. The point is not to have more reason to bicker with people, but to mature into ways of peace.
Of course, there are times that we must exhort people to be faithful to Biblical teaching rather than go after strange teaching. But let’s not miss the fact that Paul is constantly worried about people arguing and quarreling over words for no good reason.