Category Archives: Wisdom

Paul wants us to get back in line to be ready for the surge

It is a lot easier to read the Apostle Paul tell you from his jail cell to submit to tyrants than it is to hear a politico quote the Apostle Paul to use pious lingo that effectively means “Get back in line!”

(As the grasshopper said to the ant, which has always made me wonder if Pixar had someone who brought up the fable at a planning meeting… but I digress).

But whether it comes from the Apostle or the authoritarian, it is still true. Just because a tyrant, in his unbelief, is pushing a deadly weapon into your hands, doesn’t mean you should share his lack of faith and refuse to grab the handle.

Faith and patience win out in the end.

It is not just the public sector. All your life you will hear authority figures endorse ethics and values that make you more compliant to the ones enjoying authority over you–ethics and values you don’t see them practicing when it is to their hurt. But do as they say not as they do. God is slow to anger but not asleep. And when it is time for the changing of the guard, he will see you are ready for authority precisely because you served well.

If you have to spend time in a jail cell, you don’t want to waste the preparation that it can provide you!

Learning contentment at the cliff’s edge

Believers often find themselves up against it. The challenge might be medical, familial, financial, educational, or personal. We tend to think in terms of pressure or stress, and when it gets really bad, trouble. The old Puritans thought in terms of affliction, as well as in terms of God’s antidote to affliction, which is contentment. Samuel Rutherford once said that affliction was like a wine cellar. When I am afflicted, he said, I look for God’s choicest wines.

Contentment is not something that is suspended in a timeless place, but is rather what God is teaching us while we wait for our deliverance. And we are supposed to be looking for that deliverance in such a way as gives us rest in the present. There is a faithless way of looking for deliverance that exacerbates the present troubles, and there is a way of looking for future deliverance that brings a present deliverance. We are called to the latter.

There are two things to remember as you are carrying the weight of an affliction. The first is the “space” of the deliverance, and the other is the “time” of the deliverance. Let us consider the second of these first.

It was a proverb among the descendants of Abraham that “on the mount of the Lord it will be provided.” This came from God’s provision of a ram for Abraham at the last minute, to be substituted for Isaac. As He tells the stories of our lives, we need to come to grips with the fact that God loves cliffhangers. The application that we should draw from this is that we should love cliffhangers too — even though we are the ones hanging from the cliff.

With regard to the “space” of the trial, a weighty difficulty has mass, it takes up room. It is something you have to carry. But as you carry it (to be distinguished from collapsing under it), you grow stronger. Afflictions are God’s weight room, and He can seem sometimes like a particularly hard trainer. When you are benching more than you thought you volunteered for, and way more than what you thought was a good idea, you need to trust Him. He knows more about this than we do.

Read the rest: Doug Wilson — “When Gollum Bit His Finger Off”

Are you an Advocate for your wife, or a Satan?

A Great Mystery: Fourteen Wedding … – Google Books.

I was reading on page 55 and something Peter wrote hit me.

In Genes 3, Adam faced a choice. No I mean after he had already decided to use his wife as an experiment to see if the fruit would kill her. When confronted by God Adam faced a choice.

Would Adam intercede for his wife or would he blame her?

He blamed her. Not surprising. If he was willing to throw the woman in the path of the serpent, he wasn’t going to suddenly act like a man in God’s presence.

So what does that teach us?

Eve had really done wrong. Adam couldn’t exactly be accused of lying about Eve when he blamed her. On the other hand, he had been there with her and had kept silent to see what would happen. He let her go first and then he ate. He was more to blame than she was.

But even if he wasn’t, would it really have been right for him to point at her before God?

We”re supposed to intercede for our wives. We’re supposed to protect them from accusations as best we can. Yes sin should be dealt with, but in most situations, sin in others is an opportunity for exploitation, not justice and certainly not mercy. Husbands should protect their wives from that.

And also from the accuser in her head. Is a husband’s job to point out a wife’s faults or to build her up?

Did it ever occur to you that when Solomon wrote, “House and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the LORD,” that he was trying to get you to be thankful for the wife you have?

The heart of her husband trusts in her,
and he will have no lack of gain.

Adam didn’t trust Eve, and he ended up with a great deal of lack. Regard your wife as faithful, before others and before your own heart. You are called to be her Advocate, not her Satan–her Prosecuter.

Humanly speaking, it is complete coincidence that this is scheduled to publish the same day as this.

Members of the body

Romans 6.13

Do not present your members to sin as instruments for unrighteousness, but present yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life, and your members to God as instruments for righteousness.

And then Romans 6.19b:

For just as you once presented your members as slaves to impurity and to lawlessness leading to more lawlessness, so now present your members as slaves to righteousness leading to sanctification.

Does this see an odd way to write? But it is right out of Proverbs wherein we are warned about wicked or foolish eyes, ears, hands, feet, and hearts, etc.  Just one example among many:

There are six things that the Lord hates,
seven that are an abomination to him:
haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
and hands that shed innocent blood,
a heart that devises wicked plans,
feet that make haste to run to evil,
a false witness who breathes out lies,
and one who sows discord among brothers.

“Fear of the Lord” = faith in Christ

Proverbs 14.26:

In the fear of the LORD one has strong confidence,
and his children will have a refuge.

Not trembling, confidence.

Then Proverbs 29.25:

The fear of man lays a snare,
but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe.

I think we don’t use the word “fear” often because we want to flatter ourselves. But at bottom, peer pressure is fear. Wanting someone’s respect is to fear that person. You live by that person’s appraisal.

Notice that the opposite of fearing God is not to be confident in His presence but to have no respect for Him at all. Proverbs 14.2:

Whoever walks in uprightness fears the LORD,
but he who is devious in his ways despises him.

So the issues here are the same as what Paul refers to in Romans 2:

For no one is a Jew who is merely one outwardly, nor is circumcision outward and physical. But a Jew is one inwardly, and circumcision is a matter of the heart, by the Spirit, not by the letter. His praise is not from man but from God.

Jesus confronted the Pharisees over the same issue. John 5.44:

How can you believe, when you receive glory from one another and do not seek the glory that comes from the only God?

You fear the one who you acknowledge can give you glory.

Proverbial Hebrews?

The book of Hebrews does not contain the words “wise” or “wisdom” even one time.

Yet wisdom is nevertheless a major theme in Hebrews. Jesus learned obedience, we should have discernment of good and evil, and then there is the quoting of Proverbs 3:

Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted. In your struggle against sin you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood. And have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons?

“My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord,
nor be weary when reproved by him.
For the Lord disciplines the one he loves,
and chastises every son whom he receives.”

It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons. For what son is there whom his father does not discipline?

But to think that Proverbs just shows up here is to miss the point. Proverbs is not quoted as a new thing. It is quoted to reveal what has already been going on. Consider the beginning of this section to which Proverbs 3 is quoted as a closing:

Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. For by it the people of old received their commendation. By faith we understand that the universe was created by the word of God, so that what is seen was not made out of things that are visible. By faith Abel offered to God a more acceptable sacrifice than Cain, through which he was commended as righteous, God commending him by accepting his gifts. And through his faith, though he died, he still speaks. By faith Enoch was taken up so that he should not see death, and he was not found, because God had taken him. Now before he was taken he was commended as having pleased God. And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.

The statement about faith and creation hearkens back to Hebrews 1.2: “in these last days he has spoken to us by his Son, whom he appointed the heir of all things, through whom also he created the world.”

Proverbs has a lot to say about this:

The Lord possessed me at the beginning of his work,
the first of his acts of old.
Ages ago I was set up,
at the first, before the beginning of the earth.
When there were no depths I was brought forth,
when there were no springs abounding with water.
Before the mountains had been shaped,
before the hills, I was brought forth,
before he had made the earth with its fields,
or the first of the dust of the world.
When he established the heavens, I was there;
when he drew a circle on the face of the deep,
when he made firm the skies above,
when he established the fountains of the deep,
when he assigned to the sea its limit,
so that the waters might not transgress his command,
when he marked out the foundations of the earth,
then I was beside him, like a master workman,
and I was daily his delight,
rejoicing before him always,
rejoicing in his inhabited world
and delighting in the children of man.

And this also is the key to why the author of Hebrews speaks of how faith must believe God “rewards those who seek him.”

Again, the key is Proverbs:

My son, if you receive my words
and treasure up my commandments with you,
making your ear attentive to wisdom
and inclining your heart to understanding;
yes, if you call out for insight
and raise your voice for understanding,
if you seek it like silver
and search for it as for hidden treasures,
then you will understand the fear of the Lord
and find the knowledge of God.
For the Lord gives wisdom;
from his mouth come knowledge and understanding;
he stores up sound wisdom for the upright;
he is a shield to those who walk in integrity,
guarding the paths of justice
and watching over the way of his saints.

And again:

I love those who love me,
and those who seek me diligently find me.

So faith seeks God and finds him not in obvious blessings but in trials that bring wisdom.

Finally, the issue of whether or not one will seek God is whether one trusts that God is worth it. The point of faith is to value the faithfulness of the one who promises. “Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful” (Hebrews 10.23). It is about how one value’s God: “By faith Sarah herself received power to conceive, even when she was past the age, since she considered him faithful who had promised.”

So in Proverbs the question is whether or not you value wisdom as highly as you should.

Blessed is the one who finds wisdom,
and the one who gets understanding,
for the gain from her is better than gain from silver
and her profit better than gold.
She is more precious than jewels,
and nothing you desire can compare with her.

Proverbial Theology of Trinitarian Glory

Proverbs 25.27: It is not good to eat much honey, nor is it glorious to seek one’s own glory.

The one who speaks on his own authority seeks his own glory; but the one who seeks the glory of him who sent him is true, and in him there is no falsehood (John 7.18)

I do not receive glory from people. But I know that you do not have the love of God within you. I have come in my Father’s name, and you do not receive me. If another comes in his own name, you will receive him. How can you believe, when you receive glory from one another and do not seek the glory that comes from the only God? (John 5.41-44)

Proverbs 17.6: Grandchildren are the crown of the aged, and the glory of children is their fathers.

Yet I do not seek my own glory; there is One who seeks it, and he is the judge. Truly, truly, I say to you, if anyone keeps my word, he will never see death.” The Jews said to him, “Now we know that you have a demon! Abraham died, as did the prophets, yet you say, ‘If anyone keeps my word, he will never taste death.’ Are you greater than our father Abraham, who died? And the prophets died! Who do you make yourself out to be?” Jesus answered, “If I glorify myself, my glory is nothing. It is my Father who glorifies me, of whom you say, ‘He is our God.’ (John 8.50-54)

Class consciousness could help

Here are a few gems from John Scalzi:

Being poor is knowing exactly how much everything costs.

Being poor is getting angry at your kids for asking for all the crap they see on TV….

Being poor is knowing your kid goes to friends’ houses but never has friends over to yours…

Being poor is wondering if your well-off sibling is lying when he says he doesn’t mind when you ask for help.

Being poor is off-brand toys….

Being poor is never buying anything someone else hasn’t bought first.

Being poor is picking the 10 cent ramen instead of the 12 cent ramen because that’s two extra packages for every dollar…

Being poor is getting tired of people wanting you to be grateful.

Being poor is knowing you’re being judged.

Not everything is of the same quality. You can read the whole list for yourself. The one about worrying about the price of a lotto ticket seemed the worst (i.e. I have no sympathy whatsoever). And even of the ones I quoted… why would anyone want to buy more expensive ramen? (We get it from Save-A-Lot across the street).

There are also much more serious items. Like hoping a toothache will go away. (Since I started this blog post I’ve started the practice of hoping a car noise goes away.)

But on the items above and others similar to them, I have a couple of suggestions. It seems to me the real problem is two-fold 1. being within the reach of the media and 2. having middle-class friends.

Start with marketing…

One of the most damaging marketing tools in  the United States media culture is the one that establishes “normal life.” Because there isn’t one normal life.

There are kids who, if their parents are wise, need to be raised to never expect to see the inside of a McDonald’s. Never. All right, maybe if they ask for their birthday.

And if that is the case, there are many more who need to never care about a brand-name ever.

Advertising is a great thing. States that don’t allow advertising for certain products are states where those products cost more for consumers on average. You would think that the lack of advertising costs would make the products more affordable but it doesn’t work that way….

But lower prices are meaningless if you still can’t afford the item. For certain economic classes, families need to be impervious. They need to understand that those ads are for other people and other people’s children.

And that means understanding that they don’t belong to their peers if they are being raised in a middle-class environment. They are among them but they are not of them. Get used to it. Get over it. Move on.

I am pretty sure there are a lot of advantages to being in a middle class environment rather than a lower-class one… but you have to be prepared. Your head should be made of flint and your heart of stone.

Being poor (probably not Scalzi-level poor) is wanting to weep in frustration when you get the note your child brings home from class requesting $10 for her teachers birthday present. You love her teacher and the school is great but you already can’t really afford the tuition and you know groceries are already under-budgeted this month. And no one thinks twice that you wouldn’t have a couple of fivers lying around the house to dump in an envelope to send back to the school.

The constant message is you don’t belong. You are outside looking in. You are the nose pressed up against the glass of the restaurant window.

And yet you can get by. And you should be grateful to God.

And you can be.

Once you realize that He is not middle-class.

Proverbial Paul 0001

Proverbs 14.14:

The backslider in heart will be filled with the fruit of his ways,
and a good man will be filled with the fruit of his ways.

Romans 6.19-23:

I am speaking in human terms, because of your natural limitations. For just as you once presented your members as slaves to impurity and to lawlessness leading to more lawlessness, so now present your members as slaves to righteousness leading to sanctification.

For when you were slaves of sin, you were free in regard to righteousness. But what fruit were you getting at that time from the things of which you are now ashamed? For the end of those things is death. But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God, the fruit you get leads to sanctification and its end, eternal life. For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

What I thought I had done

In seminary I worked several “menial” jobs to make ends meet. I was a bell hop, security guard, and wore a few other hats. I did all this while being a full time student and while we had our first babies.  I had one semester in which I took nineteen hours of classes. I wanted to make sure I was done in three years.

So I would tell anyone that I knew what it was like to make a living working at menial jobs.

Word to the wise:

When you are a student who thinks you have an entire career ahead of you, you know nothing about making a living working at menial jobs.

Nothing.

Different expectations. Different time frame. You were in an entirely different world than anyone you know who actually makes a living working menial jobs.