Belated Birthday Wishes…

to our sweet, beautiful 10 year-old Abigail, who, in keeping with her personality, has not fretted once over the fact that we have not done a thing to really celebrate her January 5th birthday properly yet this year.  Oh, yes, Grammy did bring a cake to share with many extended family members last week (insert large group pic the likes of which I don’t know if we have ever taken since I joined the family 13 years ago!)

when we had Christmas celebrations aplenty, and it was very nice of her, but don’t you think a girl who turns ten should have a bit of pomp and circumstance from her immediate family?? Well, I do, and we intend to do something about it — just as soon as we are finished celebrating Christmas, and done getting sick!  A multitude of illnesses both in our family and extended family meant that several little Christmas get-togethers still have not taken place despite it being the 8th of January. We Hornes like to make our holidays last, it would seem!!

I like this photo because it accurately sums up typical birthdays for these two: here they are looking rather festive and content (yes, that is the quintessential content face for Jonathan!) in their Christmas finery. The truth of the matter is that most years on their actual birthdays, which fall exactly a week apart on either side of New Year’s, they are usually stepping back from making a big deal about them turning one year older in favor of celebrating the birth of our Lord and Saviour alongside whichever extended family we happen to be hanging with at the time.  And they do it with a smile on their face, joy in their heart, and honestly (I’m not just being a proud Mama here!) nary a concern voiced about where their cake and presents are.

Since we all know that despite above disclaimor, I am utterly and unabashedly proud of both of them, I just wanted to say that I think it is really swell: at a time when I think I would have been more concerned with my eight or ten years’ celebration, my children wait patiently till our holiday fun is past to celebrate their special days.  Many a year we just wait until January is almost half over to have parties, whether large or small. Mostly because there isn’t time to fit yet one more celebration in around Christmas and New Year’s!!

So here is to you, Abigail, and to you, Jonathan, sweet and in this case at least, very patient children of ours. You are a joy and delight to your parents, and your whole family. We love you dearly, and intend to make a huge birthday fuss over you both….just give us a week or two so we can do it properly!!

1 Comment

  1. Mom/Ruth
    Jan 9, 2009

    I’ve said it before, but I don’t mind saying it again: Happy Birthday Abigail & Jonathan!

    Grandy certainly identifies with both of them. He had to get married to me before he could have a proper birthday celebration. I grew up in a family of 6 where everyone’s birthday was a special deal, but maybe if any of those birthdays had fallen in December or January it would have been different!